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Karen Delaney Shideleff

Sadly, Karen passed away on Jan 18th, 2017.  While she may be gone, her desire to fight ALS was inspiring to those who knew her.  Continue to remember her laugh, smile, and her unselfish attributes all around.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Over the last 18 years and counting, our family has been blessed to have been closely associated with the Cohen family.   Our daughters, Schuyler and Emily met in daycare, and have been the best of friends since they were only months old.  In the years that have passed, our families have grown closer as the time has gone on. Friendships, memories, good times and bad times have been experienced together. Through the Cohens, we have since met Karen and Bob, and the rest of their wonderful family which includes many fabulous people.  I remember Chrissie always talking about doing an ALS walk or bike ride, or another event, but not really knowing what it was for.  Over the years, we've all come to find more and more determination to do something to help out in finding a cure for  ALS, and also raising awareness to those not familiar will this disease.  Support is tremendous, actions are better.  Please join all of those fighting against ALS in some way, shape, or form. Thank you.

 

ARTICLE IS DATED from 5/2/13
From:  http://spryliving.com/articles/a-battle-to-the-end-against-lou-gehrigs-disease/
 

A Battle to the End Against Lou Gehrig’s Disease

by Anna DickensMay 2, 2013

After being diagnosed with ALS—also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease—Karen Shideleff decided to fight back against the ruthless disease that is progressively claiming her body.

 

Karen Delaney Shideleff is a study in incalculable inner strength. The 40-year-old from Ferndale, Penn., is battling ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease, the fatal, relentless disease that gradually destroys the body while leaving the mind intact. But even as certain death looms on the horizon, Karen embraces her life to the fullest—and is inspiring others who suffer from Lou Gehrig’s disease to follow suit.

 

Prior to her diagnosis, Karen was a vital, active woman who enjoyed jogging on the treadmill and taking long hikes. But one morning in July 2011, while going on a routine three-mile walk with her dog, she noticed that something was off.

“My pace was slower and my footsteps sounded odd,” Karen, a nurse, recalls. “I had also been having a lot of muscle twitching, a lot of nighttime cramps.”

 

As the telltale symptoms worsened over the next few months, Karen had a mounting suspicion about what was happening to her body but hid her worries from friends and family. “By Thanksgiving, I knew deep down that I had ALS but didn’t want to tell my family,” Karen says. “I stayed quiet. I didn’t want to raise that flag during the holidays.”

Karen visited a doctor in February of 2011, who ran a few tests. Shortly thereafter, she was diagnosed with ALS. A rapidly progressive neurodegenerative disease that targets nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord, ALS causes progressive loss of muscle control leading to complete paralysis. There is currently no cure for ALS, and the prognosis is bleak—on average, most ALS patients have two to five years to live from the time of diagnosis.

It has been over two years since Karen was diagnosed, but she continues to exhibit exceptional strength, refusing to ruminate about her grim prognosis.

“I always say that having a positive attitude is half the battle with this disease,” she says. “I’m not going to pretend like I don’t have a bad day here or there. But I do think that it’s important to keep your spirits up and surround yourself with good people.”

 

Of course, there are days when Karen mourns the loss of her physical capabilities and independence. When asked what the most challenging part of living with ALS is, Karen responds: “Having to ask someone to help you with normal daily tasks is emotionally tiring. Seeing the worry and fear on your loved ones faces is heartbreaking.”

 

Although she walks with the assistance of a walker and occasionally a wheelchair, Karen emphasizes that she is anything but disabled.

“I don’t want to be seen as a handicapped person,” she says. “I still try to do as much as I possibly can. I’ve been known to push myself way past my limits. I want to go out and experience things. I have a life to live. I’m not going to give up.”

 

To this end, Karen has made it her personal mission to raise awareness about ALS. She has gotten involved with her local ALS Association Greater Philadelphia Chapter, an organization dedicated to enhancing quality of life for ALS sufferers while aggressively searching for new treatments and a cure. In previous years, before her mobility was compromised, Karen participated in the ALS Express Bike Ride and the Walk to Defeat ALS®. Now, she travels the nation as an advocate for ALS awareness, visiting with senators and representatives to rally for greater government funding and support.

 

Karen says she finds it extremely empowering to join in the fight against Lou Gehrig’s disease.  “It makes me feel like I’m fighting back,” she says. “It makes me feel better knowing that my story might open up somebody’s eyes to what ALS is, who it affects and what impact it has on their lives. Hopefully, by hearing my story, maybe I can inspire people to get out there and volunteer.”

At the end of the day, Karen strives to build a greater sense of hope for the ALS community. “I know there most likely won’t be a cure for ALS in my lifetime.

 

But I have the hope that there could be one in my sisters’ lifetime,” Karen says.

Rest assured, Karen will continue to fight against the ruthless neurodegenerative disease that is progressively claiming her body. “I’m not afraid,” she says. “I’m not going to make this disease a part of who I am.”

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